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Husband ---------------------------------------- wifeAbu Hani / 50 autumn / employee --------------------- Umm Hani / 42 / physicianNervous, lazy, average religiosity ------------- aggressive, masculine, arguing, malicious JaddawanthazahCream. Loved to help people, kind-hearted, cultured ------ decent, fun, love to help people, average commitmentOf educated religious family known --------------- from a low level of morality, science and religionHealth status: good -------------------------- health status: goodSocial Status: to --------------------------- good physical condition: excellentMental state: chronic depression Average ----------- mental state: a severe personality disorder
God forbid me to يبتليني this woman for 5 years I would characterize as good to some extent, and Onjibna which 3 Flowers, age now daughter 14 and neonatal 11 and 9, and then what to broadcast that got us otherwise because of differences accumulated, you which beat her after Astnvave with every means by which unthinkable any reformer ...She left home, and the intervention of good people to reconcile to no avail, and joined her parents in abuse my ugliest person might be imagined (and there are so many details). , And after 3 years of Albhdlh and misery in police stations and courts, Judge wisdom Balnchoz, and soon that replaced him in divorce, and finished instrument that regulates the relationship between us and the dish on the ground for a period of two years. But returned again to overturn the instrument in the court, and fabricating problems, and محاربتي various means and tarnish my reputation and even do assaulted in a public place, and then harnessing Allowastat interest in collusion with some of the officers and the exploitation of their relevance as a physician. And of course the other hand I do not pretend that I angel but issued me the words and actions of non-decent, but it was always within the limits of self-defense. And problems still exist even now, despite the passage of more than seven years, and despite her marriage to another victim, and marrying a woman gave birth to them Bmolodyn.
For children:The origin and the natural instinct of the strong boys love me, how many times were tears in their eyes when أرجعهم to their mother's house. Where I was trying hard not to mention bad, and provide a decent life for them and good upbringing Islamic education, and taking into account their mental state.But that did not live up to Tliqta, so she and the participation of its people in a systematic manner and malignant cut Salta and upbringing of their on Akouka and as follows:- Inform them of the details of the conduct of the case!!!- Picture distortion have and نعتي ugliest qualities and traits.- Play the role of victim that protect her children from the father predator.- Dumped by all means play, entertainment and computer games (which you know harm) very, very exaggerated. Mm made me Otaftr Alma and I, sitting in front of the television for long hours.- Not her children's state of health care, where children suffer from wasting and clear.- Not originally dedication to farming because preoccupation with work as an employee and do the burdens of her husband, and assigning things to the entry of education.- Beating the boys sometimes and Tanifam when يذكروني then.- Registration of children in public schools against my desire to enroll them in private schools.- Carried out during the course of the case Bmenai see the boys for four months, then the Bmenai see the boys for a whole year, and now I have not seen my children for over a year!!
Alsldh esteemed advisers: "the free world to the distemper to see an enemy of his friendship must"1 - What's going on?! I ask this question and I'm very misery and unhappiness. By analytical what is happening is one of the reasons that paid for this is first remorse extreme where "every absolute regret", secondly personality complex, thirdly not my spend on children - unlike my desire completely - and so persistently and desiring, Fourth outlook inferiority me, and so in Tnnchr country disguised racism - where we hold the same nationality but of different origin -.2 - despite my culture religious that says "and introduce remembrance ..." and "God, if I like a slave ابتلاه," but I am in a state of paralysis mental and physical not stronger when the follow-up prayer and fasting ... despite my attempts sincere and repeated, and thus became the calamity in my religion now, what am doing?3 - The big question now is - In light of what I mentioned earlier -: Do you think that the interest of the children be kept with their mother, or living with me - a responsibility to ask them on the Day of Resurrection - and especially in light of my suffering from moping and severe sleep disorder and who did not advise me medicine in treatment -? If the answer is to live with me, what is the strategy that should be followed in dealing with children Msmmin outrageous ideas against me, and accustomed to life a bit different, especially with the current wife) and that does not count too much)? .4 - Are boys briefed on the details of the case?
Finally, I ask that you please forgive me stretching with that there are a lot of details that I have not mentioned, but "if the right holder an article," and I hope that had problems of this special attention from Dnkm. And prayers and peace on the best prophets and Almrsilyen, and Praise be to God who does not praise is disliked.
In the name of God the MercifulBrother Fadil / Abu Hani, may God protect him.Peace be upon you and God's mercy and blessings be upon you:
'll Wadlow my pitch - God willing - from a psychological perspective, and the other brothers will specialists - God willing - also by making their opinion.
Of course what I'm saying is within the limits of possibility humans, it may be true and may be a mistake, and what really Srdth very clear, but certainly is incomplete, and any processor specialist fair must listen to the other party, and perhaps there is a need to listen to others involved in the dumb, but During what is available, I can tell you that the positive thing about the problem in between you it has ended in divorce, this, my brother Karim From my perspective (((((gate - the sight of God - to enter through)))) as long as the marital life has become not intolerable, so let the problem solved to a large degree, and remained a problem boys, do not underestimate them at all, but I want you (the fact) that deal with this matter from a slightly different angle.
First: I am convinced that the mothers of Ikmn formulation and show some intransigence and drop anger at ex-husband by treating boys, this kind of revenge unacceptable, but it happens in real life, there may be something, but this does not negate the fact as the mother, and she loves her children, and I would like to remind you, and always refer to this fact, and remind yourself, it (the fact) bright spot, and will reduce every Zlamyat and negatives and the hardship faced by the former spouse.
Your brother Karim: see the positive outlook of the Nook as a mother.
Second: some endurance and sacrifice on your part - my brother Karim - continue with your children, do not mention them their mother humans never, quite the contrary mention good, and this is what recommended by the Koran words of Almighty God: {And do not forget the credit you}, I remember well within reason before Ibnaúkma, and this will build positive impressions in children.
Child after the age of six and seventh remember, and while bringing to the stage Alevaah will have estimated total to rule on matters independently, will never forget the children of your good against their mother, will never Insoha, whatever ship them now and whatever she said all this will fall completely to acquire these children - God save them - cognitive abilities which must start from now, when they reach the age discrimination can be real to judge things.
Your brother Karim: not exchange your spouse the same their approach Hyalk the building negative impressions about you in the eyes of the children, nor able to abuse Ttrahqan each, and do not forget the credit you.
So let summarize you command that problem solved and ended in divorce, Secondly: as the mother, Third: Try to send messages of positive to your children about their mother, this is what I see, I do not see ever you are in any case to treat antidepressant, I know you have something of indigestion mood, have Ajtrarat to memories may not be pretty, but all of this - my brother Karim - is past experience has ended, and my son on the present, not to disturb yourself than have negative consequences on your second marriage.
Loya brother Karim: people change and change, and this is the law of God in the universe, see the things more positive, and this is what I see and I would recommend it, but God willing the fraternity elders guide you about other steps that can be carried out, and remind him you is in the range of advising and consultation, and no more than that.
God bless you, and good God, and God to help and guide.
+ + + + + + + + + + + + + + + +Ended answer d. Mohammed Abdul Aleem Senior Consultant Psychiatry and Addiction Medicine, followed by an answer Sheikh Ahmed Alfodei Advisor family and educational affairs.+ + + + + + + + + + + + + + + + + + + +
The newest your beloved brother in Web Consulting Islam, thank you for your interest in Bibnaúk, and you are concerned about your upbringing valid, and we ask God Almighty names and attributes to make it easy for you intended, and that the eye recognizes your children.
No doubt Beloved (first) that what Allaah decrees and spent for humans is good, but did not realize the human side goodness it, we often love things and take care them and where the scourge, and a group of things and نكرهها and where goodness, has God said: { and it may be that you dislike a thing which is good for you and that you love a thing which is bad for you and God knows and you know not}, and your perception of this fact - Beloved - and remind them is the first thing displace you fuss and expels you of this concern, the faith in God Almighty and worth and that good is the minimum urgent.
Should always remember - Beloved - that this decree is in God to your children, and of them, and that your Vrack wife appreciated the previous God, and that, although it appeared evil but a lot of good you may not be aware of.
As to the boys - Beloved - should be fully aware that they have reached the age where they can distinguish between what will benefit them and hurt them, and recognize also among loves and hates them, and then do not recommend never Balachtgal or thinking about how to remove this image from their minds or those , but should be interested in providing beneficial to them and help them to live a stable life as much as possible, and they will understand you this, and realize your love for them and your eagerness to them through your actions with them, provide interest on what you want you and wishes, the was in their interest to stay with their mother - This is without doubt a great interest to them in many ways - If the interest in staying with their mother realized, in the sense that they obtain their luck from religious education Faamron perform rituals and prayers, and check them demands and desires, you should leave them with their mother, and encourages them to live with a stable life , and also helpful for Dr. Mohammed - Parts of God better - should remember them well, they if they hear you praise her and mentioned well, and ordered boys Btaatha, and righteousness, and to hear her words, this will happen in them love you, and will respond for themselves many of the words that Maybe they receive from their mother, and perhaps Sarahoha unlike what you say, this method undoubtedly would have a positive impact on children.
If children do not obtain their luck of Education at their mother so as not commanded moralists, and do not return to perform acts of worship, nor Egnbon falling into irregularities legitimacy, it is their interest in this case requires undoubtedly Houdantek you to them, and in this case should be kindly their so far as possible, and you right-holder in the nursery as long as the mother has been married, you should be courted them and Tthbb them as much as possible, even if that is divided times between you and their mother, فيبقون you some hours or some days, there is nothing wrong that visit their mother and remain then days or hours, you are keen within the time they spend with you to instill the virtues and teaching them to worship, and so on until they grow up.
In wholesale - Beloved - the sons undoubtedly Semezon, and if خيروا they would choose love commands them to stay with you or with their mother, but that was to stay with their mother Tafrita in their upbringing should make you the best of what you have in the way makes them willing and Thabibhm to stay with you , even for some times, and should, however, be assisted Balakla of your family and the people or these boys, so everyone will cooperate to provide a good life for these children and help them to live a stable life realized where their interests and benefits, and this required undoubtedly meet him hearts, and keen to do the family members all, it showed you the sake of revenge from Tliqtk or order to disarm the boys, if they relatives to do so, they will do what they can to إعانتك.
We ask Allah to bless you with good, and to fit your children, He is the Most Generous.
Husband ---------------------------------------- wifeAbu Hani / 50 autumn / employee --------------------- Umm Hani / 42 / physicianNervous, lazy, average religiosity ------------- aggressive, masculine, arguing, malicious JaddawanthazahCream. Loved to help people, kind-hearted, cultured ------ decent, fun, love to help people, average commitmentOf educated religious family known --------------- from a low level of morality, science and religionHealth status: good -------------------------- health status: goodSocial Status: to --------------------------- good physical condition: excellentMental state: chronic depression Average ----------- mental state: a severe personality disorder
God forbid me to يبتليني this woman for 5 years I would characterize as good to some extent, and Onjibna which 3 Flowers, age now daughter 14 and neonatal 11 and 9, and then what to broadcast that got us otherwise because of differences accumulated, you which beat her after Astnvave with every means by which unthinkable any reformer ...She left home, and the intervention of good people to reconcile to no avail, and joined her parents in abuse my ugliest person might be imagined (and there are so many details). , And after 3 years of Albhdlh and misery in police stations and courts, Judge wisdom Balnchoz, and soon that replaced him in divorce, and finished instrument that regulates the relationship between us and the dish on the ground for a period of two years. But returned again to overturn the instrument in the court, and fabricating problems, and محاربتي various means and tarnish my reputation and even do assaulted in a public place, and then harnessing Allowastat interest in collusion with some of the officers and the exploitation of their relevance as a physician. And of course the other hand I do not pretend that I angel but issued me the words and actions of non-decent, but it was always within the limits of self-defense. And problems still exist even now, despite the passage of more than seven years, and despite her marriage to another victim, and marrying a woman gave birth to them Bmolodyn.
For children:The origin and the natural instinct of the strong boys love me, how many times were tears in their eyes when أرجعهم to their mother's house. Where I was trying hard not to mention bad, and provide a decent life for them and good upbringing Islamic education, and taking into account their mental state.But that did not live up to Tliqta, so she and the participation of its people in a systematic manner and malignant cut Salta and upbringing of their on Akouka and as follows:- Inform them of the details of the conduct of the case!!!- Picture distortion have and نعتي ugliest qualities and traits.- Play the role of victim that protect her children from the father predator.- Dumped by all means play, entertainment and computer games (which you know harm) very, very exaggerated. Mm made me Otaftr Alma and I, sitting in front of the television for long hours.- Not her children's state of health care, where children suffer from wasting and clear.- Not originally dedication to farming because preoccupation with work as an employee and do the burdens of her husband, and assigning things to the entry of education.- Beating the boys sometimes and Tanifam when يذكروني then.- Registration of children in public schools against my desire to enroll them in private schools.- Carried out during the course of the case Bmenai see the boys for four months, then the Bmenai see the boys for a whole year, and now I have not seen my children for over a year!!
Alsldh esteemed advisers: "the free world to the distemper to see an enemy of his friendship must"1 - What's going on?! I ask this question and I'm very misery and unhappiness. By analytical what is happening is one of the reasons that paid for this is first remorse extreme where "every absolute regret", secondly personality complex, thirdly not my spend on children - unlike my desire completely - and so persistently and desiring, Fourth outlook inferiority me, and so in Tnnchr country disguised racism - where we hold the same nationality but of different origin -.2 - despite my culture religious that says "and introduce remembrance ..." and "God, if I like a slave ابتلاه," but I am in a state of paralysis mental and physical not stronger when the follow-up prayer and fasting ... despite my attempts sincere and repeated, and thus became the calamity in my religion now, what am doing?3 - The big question now is - In light of what I mentioned earlier -: Do you think that the interest of the children be kept with their mother, or living with me - a responsibility to ask them on the Day of Resurrection - and especially in light of my suffering from moping and severe sleep disorder and who did not advise me medicine in treatment -? If the answer is to live with me, what is the strategy that should be followed in dealing with children Msmmin outrageous ideas against me, and accustomed to life a bit different, especially with the current wife) and that does not count too much)? .4 - Are boys briefed on the details of the case?
Finally, I ask that you please forgive me stretching with that there are a lot of details that I have not mentioned, but "if the right holder an article," and I hope that had problems of this special attention from Dnkm. And prayers and peace on the best prophets and Almrsilyen, and Praise be to God who does not praise is disliked.
In the name of God the MercifulBrother Fadil / Abu Hani, may God protect him.Peace be upon you and God's mercy and blessings be upon you:
'll Wadlow my pitch - God willing - from a psychological perspective, and the other brothers will specialists - God willing - also by making their opinion.
Of course what I'm saying is within the limits of possibility humans, it may be true and may be a mistake, and what really Srdth very clear, but certainly is incomplete, and any processor specialist fair must listen to the other party, and perhaps there is a need to listen to others involved in the dumb, but During what is available, I can tell you that the positive thing about the problem in between you it has ended in divorce, this, my brother Karim From my perspective (((((gate - the sight of God - to enter through)))) as long as the marital life has become not intolerable, so let the problem solved to a large degree, and remained a problem boys, do not underestimate them at all, but I want you (the fact) that deal with this matter from a slightly different angle.
First: I am convinced that the mothers of Ikmn formulation and show some intransigence and drop anger at ex-husband by treating boys, this kind of revenge unacceptable, but it happens in real life, there may be something, but this does not negate the fact as the mother, and she loves her children, and I would like to remind you, and always refer to this fact, and remind yourself, it (the fact) bright spot, and will reduce every Zlamyat and negatives and the hardship faced by the former spouse.
Your brother Karim: see the positive outlook of the Nook as a mother.
Second: some endurance and sacrifice on your part - my brother Karim - continue with your children, do not mention them their mother humans never, quite the contrary mention good, and this is what recommended by the Koran words of Almighty God: {And do not forget the credit you}, I remember well within reason before Ibnaúkma, and this will build positive impressions in children.
Child after the age of six and seventh remember, and while bringing to the stage Alevaah will have estimated total to rule on matters independently, will never forget the children of your good against their mother, will never Insoha, whatever ship them now and whatever she said all this will fall completely to acquire these children - God save them - cognitive abilities which must start from now, when they reach the age discrimination can be real to judge things.
Your brother Karim: not exchange your spouse the same their approach Hyalk the building negative impressions about you in the eyes of the children, nor able to abuse Ttrahqan each, and do not forget the credit you.
So let summarize you command that problem solved and ended in divorce, Secondly: as the mother, Third: Try to send messages of positive to your children about their mother, this is what I see, I do not see ever you are in any case to treat antidepressant, I know you have something of indigestion mood, have Ajtrarat to memories may not be pretty, but all of this - my brother Karim - is past experience has ended, and my son on the present, not to disturb yourself than have negative consequences on your second marriage.
Loya brother Karim: people change and change, and this is the law of God in the universe, see the things more positive, and this is what I see and I would recommend it, but God willing the fraternity elders guide you about other steps that can be carried out, and remind him you is in the range of advising and consultation, and no more than that.
God bless you, and good God, and God to help and guide.
+ + + + + + + + + + + + + + + +Ended answer d. Mohammed Abdul Aleem Senior Consultant Psychiatry and Addiction Medicine, followed by an answer Sheikh Ahmed Alfodei Advisor family and educational affairs.+ + + + + + + + + + + + + + + + + + + +
The newest your beloved brother in Web Consulting Islam, thank you for your interest in Bibnaúk, and you are concerned about your upbringing valid, and we ask God Almighty names and attributes to make it easy for you intended, and that the eye recognizes your children.
No doubt Beloved (first) that what Allaah decrees and spent for humans is good, but did not realize the human side goodness it, we often love things and take care them and where the scourge, and a group of things and نكرهها and where goodness, has God said: { and it may be that you dislike a thing which is good for you and that you love a thing which is bad for you and God knows and you know not}, and your perception of this fact - Beloved - and remind them is the first thing displace you fuss and expels you of this concern, the faith in God Almighty and worth and that good is the minimum urgent.
Should always remember - Beloved - that this decree is in God to your children, and of them, and that your Vrack wife appreciated the previous God, and that, although it appeared evil but a lot of good you may not be aware of.
As to the boys - Beloved - should be fully aware that they have reached the age where they can distinguish between what will benefit them and hurt them, and recognize also among loves and hates them, and then do not recommend never Balachtgal or thinking about how to remove this image from their minds or those , but should be interested in providing beneficial to them and help them to live a stable life as much as possible, and they will understand you this, and realize your love for them and your eagerness to them through your actions with them, provide interest on what you want you and wishes, the was in their interest to stay with their mother - This is without doubt a great interest to them in many ways - If the interest in staying with their mother realized, in the sense that they obtain their luck from religious education Faamron perform rituals and prayers, and check them demands and desires, you should leave them with their mother, and encourages them to live with a stable life , and also helpful for Dr. Mohammed - Parts of God better - should remember them well, they if they hear you praise her and mentioned well, and ordered boys Btaatha, and righteousness, and to hear her words, this will happen in them love you, and will respond for themselves many of the words that Maybe they receive from their mother, and perhaps Sarahoha unlike what you say, this method undoubtedly would have a positive impact on children.
If children do not obtain their luck of Education at their mother so as not commanded moralists, and do not return to perform acts of worship, nor Egnbon falling into irregularities legitimacy, it is their interest in this case requires undoubtedly Houdantek you to them, and in this case should be kindly their so far as possible, and you right-holder in the nursery as long as the mother has been married, you should be courted them and Tthbb them as much as possible, even if that is divided times between you and their mother, فيبقون you some hours or some days, there is nothing wrong that visit their mother and remain then days or hours, you are keen within the time they spend with you to instill the virtues and teaching them to worship, and so on until they grow up.
In wholesale - Beloved - the sons undoubtedly Semezon, and if خيروا they would choose love commands them to stay with you or with their mother, but that was to stay with their mother Tafrita in their upbringing should make you the best of what you have in the way makes them willing and Thabibhm to stay with you , even for some times, and should, however, be assisted Balakla of your family and the people or these boys, so everyone will cooperate to provide a good life for these children and help them to live a stable life realized where their interests and benefits, and this required undoubtedly meet him hearts, and keen to do the family members all, it showed you the sake of revenge from Tliqtk or order to disarm the boys, if they relatives to do so, they will do what they can to إعانتك.
We ask Allah to bless you with good, and to fit your children, He is the Most Generous.
